My last wishes post my life !

Babaji passed away on 25th January 2011, he was hospitalised for more than a week and was not well. He was 88 years old, had a healthy life and followed his life style with discipline and punctuality. Death is commercialized today's world and it is way for all the people to make some money. It is sad to hear about it.

Hence today i write my last wishes to be followed post my life :)

Donate all organs of my body - which can help others in life, including my dead body to a medical institution. Do not perform any of the post death rituals & ceremonies instead donate the money to a orphanage/old age home. If you want to remember me - plant a tree. If my wish can inspire someone to do the same i would be thankful and glad.

thanks

Vinita

Life changes...

I am able to write today as i have the time after long and hectic three weeks.

Office was hectic and I was put in new project which will be going live in October so busy with the testing it and trying to learn the new things.

The new home is set and it looks lovely ...touch wood, i have added small teddy bears in every nook and corner and they make the house look cute. Tana's room has a fairy princess print duvet, a fairy princess clock & a dustbin too ! My room is simple with chest of drawers which has a antique look, the living room has the couch, the dining table, TV and the chess set - I have got it to teach Tanvi chess. After setting the house sorted Tana's school admission and then went to get Tana.


3rd September - 7th September:
Weekend trip to India to get back Tana as her school started from 3rd September. After reaching Kolkata, it was such a pleasure to see Isha & Tana, i was glad that Isha did not forget me. She was excited to see me and immediately came to me. She loved the kid pram i took for her and she put her doggy (soft toy - bag) on the little pram and off he went for a ride. She has learned to tell "Susu" when she wants to pee and rushes to the toilet ! She looks more cuter and prettier..touch wood.

As for Tana dear...she has become stubborn and has learnt to cry to get things done. Her maths has improved and she has learned tables till 12...phew !

I am Mausi :
Went to Hyderabad for a day for the cradle ceremony of my nephew. My baby sister has been blessed with a baby boy and it was his cradle ceremony, the name is not yet decided. He is cute and looks like her.

Sad demise :
My uncle/Tauji passed away suddenly after a heart attack. He was healthy and has survived through worst car accidents. But high fever followed by heart attack took him away. Feel sorry for my taiji as she will feel lonely without him . Bade papa as i called him pampered me a lot and I have always been close to him. His birthday is on the 15th of this month when he would have been 67 years. May his soul rest in peace.

When leaving for UK, Isha started crying and she did not want to leave me, she was crying for her didi also ....she is missed Tana terribly for 2 days and now seems fine and settled. She is become more naughty and tries to silence Ajji by signalling to put a finger on her lips!

Tana's schedule:
Life is become fast and hectic as i have to get Tana ready walk to her school to drop her and then reach office, after office rush home to pick her from my colleague's place, cook, spend time on her school reading etc...time just runs fast. I have tried to get her back to her routine, slowly the routine will be set and i shall put in time to spend time on her homework, maths etc.

Now hubby dear travels and reaches on Friday and spends the weekend with us and then goes backs to his work place....change of positions and scenarios ! Tana was happy to see her Papa after almost 2 months and pampered him with her love & kisses.

Funny observation :
Their was a fly in the house which was sitting on the washed plates, Tana saw it and told me," look mama woh fly apne dirtly legs se plates ko gandha kar rahi hain" I started laughing at her statement and observation.

more when i have the time ..

love

What has happened ...in last month

Hi Dear

Its been more than a month since i wrote the blog...hmmm, well the reason is i have been busy with work, travelling, moving into a new home and then sometime lazy.
So where do i start ..after coming back from Brussels i got busy updating the documents and searching for home as i planned to shift the kids with me. Finally found a house and agreed on taking it around the 2nd week of July.

16th July - 2nd August: India Trip
Trip to India staring with 2 days in Delhi. Was in Delhi almost after 3 years, it has changed a lot with fly overs and big spacious roads...burgers being sold on the pani puri stall ! yes really it was cool. Had Mo mos after ages, visited my cousins and spend time with them. Met my nephew who had a horrible accident last December..he has gone through a lot and its only a miracle he was saved..thank God for it.

Reached Kolkata on the 19th evening and stayed there for a week. Isha fell ill due to the difference in the milk as she was not able to digest the milk in India. Did not travel much but was at home and enjoyed the relaxed time at home. It was nice to see Ajji & Baba after 16 months and spend time with them. They were happy to see all of us.

Me, Isha & Tana reached Hyderabad on the 25th and was there till 31st. Rearranged the household stuff which has reach there from Delhi. Did not travel much and relaxed at home. Did not call any of my friends and missed catching up with them. Had a hair cut a Habibs and got my hair cut really short :) for a change. Met my youngest sister and her in laws, seem like nice people. Kids went to Kolkata with Nani and I left for Mumbai..it was sad to see Isha leave...poor baby. But she was fine after a little while and did not trouble mummy much on the flight.

Reached Mumbai on 31st July afternoon, felt as if i have reached "home" ...Mumbai gives me that feeling. It was pouring but i enjoyed it, was visiting Mumbai after 6 years. !!! Visited our flats and met my old friends..it was nice catching up with them. Met my sister in law & her family. It was nice catching up with them. Did shopping finally ...after being in India for 2 weeks, took time out to visit the parlour.

Left Mumbai on 2nd August. Back in office on the 3rd and you will not believe it I moved into my new house/ rented apartment on the 4th !!!

New Home :
Been busy trying to make a house into a "home" by adding my flavour and touches through the little things I put in the home. Got to buy some furniture still and i keep searching the web for it. So now you know why I have not been writing my blog regularly. Another distraction is i have TV at home which i watch after coming back from office and it is quite relaxing.

Kids:
Now the kids are in India and i will be travelling to India to get Tana as her school starts on the 3rd sept. we plan to leave Isha in India for a little while as bringing her here would mean no one to take care of her when i am office..leaving us with no choice but to put her in day care, which might not such a good idea as she does not understand English and is not yet potty trained. So we have to adjust without her for few months :( which is sad but in the long run good for her as she will be looked after well by Dadi.

more to follow

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