Silence and anger

Money matters are irritating and mundane, but then you realise that without it you cannot live in today’s world and sometimes it decreases your value and importance if you don’t have the financial backing, that hurt’s a lot. What i hate most is people giving importance to money over relationships and measuring everything in monetary terms. How is wish i could change those people’s thinking, but all i can do is pray that god gives them some sense.

Silence and time will help you get over your anger and one must learn to control their tongue and anger. When one is angry it is better to keep silent rather than say things which would make matters worse and make one repent later. To decide who is wrong and who is right can be sorted out later when the minds are relaxed and cooled off...think about it. I know many may disagree with my approach but i think sometimes silence is best weapon to use to handle difficult situations.

What to write and how to describe it i don't understand ? I wish i could do something to stop it. If only i had known something of this nature will happen i could have interfered and stopped. A small argument turning into big argument and then crossing the limits. Domestic violence still prevails and it existing among educated people is shocking. Heard it happened to a friend and i was numbed for a while as i was too shocked to react, how can someone be so brutal and uncaring and then go and apologise for the brutalness ? How callous is a man to treat is spouse in such manner ? I have lost respect for such a man for his callousness. I had watched it as a child among the poorer sections of the society where the people involved where illiterates and treated their spouse as their property, but in today's modern world, seeing it abroad is shocking. I hope and pray the God give sense in the people who resort to domestic violence and abuse the vows given to their spouse.

Isha was not feeling well as she had a runny nose and slight temperature, this worried me and I hope she feels better soon. She got loads of wishes from all my friends on the social networking site.

My nephew under went a major surgery yesterday and is out of danger now, hearing his news scared me to death. My wishes and prayers are with him for a speedy recovery.

take care & love