Sometimes i wonder how do people view others based on the circumstances and with time : This happens especially when you are falling in love or newly married when anything your loved one says seems sweet, funny, romantic and lovely, all bad habits also seem fine and you are willing to defend the person for everything he/she does with others. But this golden phase last for a 5-6 months or maximum one year and by then you have known that person for long and are more open/casual with them. You start seeing faults only after you have had an argument, fight or disagreement or when you are upset with them. You remember every bad word exchanged, things which hurt you, which you did not like about them. Things they missed or did not do, all the faults of that person start showing and work like ammunition to fuel your anger. Then you see all the imperfections and come back into the real world but by then its too late as you cannot change things and accept them. But when all is well between you and the person all you see is the good things, good points, habits etc and forgive them for their faults. Isn't the human mind amazing...a small argument changes your perception and forgiveness puts a balm to the wound.
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